She's from the school of feminism that believes you have to be more like a man to be successful.

I think that's not only key to her problems --if you embrace the patriarchy because you believe that's the path to success, then you are still part of the status quo that creates obstacles for women in the first place.

I think that's part of the reason so many women, especially young women, were turned off. You don't have to be a feminist academic to get how incongruous that path to empowerment is.

As to this,

Personally, I think there's a higher more authentic glass ceiling that can be broken that involves pursuit of change without surrendering key principles. But wtf do I know?

LOL! Well you obviously have given us the answer there, no?