also...just wondering if we were watching the same movie at all... all these points you keep making about 'victims', and antagonists, and morality...

it's about LIFE. as imperfect as it is... and male and female 'roles'... which, by the way... no one tries to define in this movie... no one claims only males or only females cheat.. and no one claims only women or only men ruin their marriages... and the way men and women interact...no one is saying anyone has to become a father to become a 'good citizen.' don't know if you were sleeping in sex ed, but all that's required to become a father is a penis and a vagina... and sometimes you don't even need both. or either? ok ok.. not yet...

but anyway, obviously you are the type of person to read WAY too deeply into... everything probably.. and your overly-feminist views really seem to blind you from very simple concepts... or PLOTS. even the way you just said to that guy/girl "nice of you to speak for her." is it wrong for him/her to mention how he/she sees their FIANCE??? most people would assume for them to be ENGAGED they probably know eachother failry well.. however, you, of course, find a fault in the fact the tried to describe them? i higly doubt you are a happy individual in general, and i'd be willing to bet a lot of money that you are ALONE.