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Keep the memories and keep yourself
Death is never easy, particularly when it should never come. Most of the deaths I have seen were elderly people (though even at age 94, the loss of my grandmother was very hard on me) and so one could always look back at their long lives and feel satisfied.
My only experiences of death around young people were my own near death, my brother's near death and a friend's spouse's death on 9/11. I nearly saw my brother die, saw him in a coma for some time before he recovered, and my main emotion was anger.
My friend lost her spouse on 9/11 and it devastated her. It took a long time and many supportive friends to get her through it.
Hold on to the memories. They will always be yours. And hold onto yourself. There isn't much else I can say.