Do not use my name or the name of any of my blogs for your petty vendetta against Markos Moulitzsa Zuniga or DailyKos
I am thisclose on getting all ghetto on your ass. I want you to stop and I want you to stop now.
I was born in East Harlem and raised in Puerto Rico. Before being a black woman, I have the qualitative Puerto Rican come before it. I don't pick or choose sides when it comes to my ethnicity or my race most of the time --unless you are Alberto Gonzales or Condoleeza Rice.
Right now, I am thisclose to choosing.
Which is why, as much as I have reasons to smack Markos upside the head for the kind of very public fall out he and I have had, I will get all ghetto on anybody's ass who tries to use my name to discredit him.
Do you get that?
I don't give a shit whether you are black or white. What I give a shit about is your true commitment to progressive political action.
What are you going to do to move forward a progressive agenda that will help everybody in this country equally?
Puertorriqueña I am siempre. I am black because I come from slavery; but my mother, who's white skin and green eyes I have taken in with love since the day I was born, comes from the Spaniard equivalent of white niggers. My family were both slaves and indentured servants and I was raised to never forget that.
The father of my children is as white as he can be through his Irish and Polish ascendancies. I have one child who is dark skinned and another one who is white. They both could pass as non-latinos and non-black if we were those kind of people.
Last, but not least, I happen to have blogs where the majority of the posters are white. It's not what I intended at all, but that's what it is. At least here at culturekitchen I have women on the front page. At the The Daily Gotham? It's all white men.
Are you going to call me a racist if the majority of people who have turned down my invitations to post on these sites are black americans and latinos?
Let this be a warning to not just to you, the person who has prompted me to write this post, but to all who use the services of this site.
Do not take my name or the name of any of my blogs in vain for any of your petty vendettas.
It is one thing to use the services of culturekitchen or any of my blogs to exercise your right to freedom of expression. This place is after all a service built with the intention of giving its users access to the political discourse of our country. This is a place, free of charge, meant to empower people by participating or agencing political discussions or calls to action.
It is an entirely different thing to come here, post in the forums, have someone agree with you in the comments section and then publish all around the web that "so-and-so at Culture Kitchen Confirms Blatant "Racism" at DailyKos" or adding on every freaking blogpost you've spammed all across the web "cross-posted at culturekitchen", so as to validate your vendetta.
Even though Markos Moulitsas-Zuñiga and I do not see eye to eye on a lot of issues pertaining the political activism and the blogosphere, I am not in the business of ennabling people's anger towards him. I am in the business of finding common ground in our activism. We are after all on the same side of the political blogosphere.
But more importantly, it should behoove a black man to go around spreading this kind of shit against another colored man. In the end, you are offering nothing to the issues you are supposedly trying to address. On the contrary, you are just getting off on stirring the shit and taking in its stink.
And in the process you are perpetuating the system of exclusion that you are supposedly trying to battle. The more you do what you do, the more you will be pushed out and ostracized. Do you get that?
When I got pissed off at the kind of racist bullshit the woman of FireDogLake put out and then the Clinton incident, I was excoriated by many around the web. But you know what, I was proven right in my first line of contention : Just because you think certain colored bloggers are not influential it doesn't mean it is true. It just means you didn't have the facts when you made the decisions you made. Why? Because my blogging informs my activism and there is a lot of work I do that does not get reported here but that have been positive contributions to the progressive movement in this country.
I don't just talk the talk, I walk it too.
I have met enough of the influentials at DailyKos and YearlyKos to say they have earned my respect. That they are all white people ... well. What can I say.
It is disheartening there is not more diversity in the mainstream liberal blogosphere. Look no further than Huffington Post.
But this is an issue that not only affects people in blogging about politics. It is also an issue that happens in the technology and business side of blogs as well.
Yet, just because more people of color are not part of the mainstream it doesn't mean they are not doing it for themselves.
There are incredibly vibrant blogospheres of color with huge audiences. People looking for hiphop, fashion, business, technology, even political wisdom in the African American, Asian, Native American and Latino communities could spend a whole year in these blogosphere without setting a foot on a site like DailyKos.
Do you want to know why? People in our communities are so used to being in the fringes in meatspace they expect not to be part of the mainstream political discourse in cyberspace. So they have taken to the web to build it all for themselves without a care about who acknowledges them for what.
We don't need validation from The Man if we don't seek it since seeking it seems to empower it more.
It is as simple as that.
DailyKos is not the end all of end alls. It does not have to be the go-to blog for issues oriented politics if you don't want it to. But there's the rub.
It amazes me how many people complain about that site but fail to make other community sites, this one included, the necessary alternatives.
David is the managing editor and Lorraine is the senior editor here at culturekitchen. If they need to ban your ass, they have my blessing. Especially if you fail to understand the point of this rant :
You are not here to complain about other people's blogs. You are here to help find ways to get more colored people into the mainstream political blogosphere. The way you do that is by empowering sites like culturekitchen and bringing more people here to participate. If you are incapable of understanding this very important mission then I think it's time for you to move on.
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Not cool
Not cool to make claims about us on other sites that are misleading.
I will point out that Daily Gotham, although most of us are white men writing for it, was one of the main sites that addressed head on local race issues surrounding certain elections. We got lots of shit from white liberals and lots of thanks from local black bloggers.
So the color of your skin doesn't necessarily color how you think. Still, the contributor in question has made some good points now and again and I have head from many that they find the dominant mindset on dKos is stiffling. But I agree that he turns it into an unproductive vendetta.
We are all on the same side and should not let differences over a primary get in the way with our common ground.
Liza said "I am this close
Liza said "I am this close getting all ghetto on your ass" I am wondering if such phrasing is as un-politically correct as using the N-word. After all, using such a phrase as "ghetto your ass" implies that the ghetto is a bad place. That is a stereotype.
A ghetto is defined (using the definition at answers.com) as "A usually poor section of a city inhabited primarily by people of the same race, religion, or social background" Nothing in that definition says bad or dangerous or awful. You can live in a ghetto that could be a mighty fine place to live, it just happens to be what it is, a neighborhood populated by numbers of people of a certain economic and/or ethnic status.
Now when Liza uses "ghetto your ass" is it not like using the "N" word, giving it a negative stereotype? I don't even agree with the city council proposal to deal with excessive use of the "N" word because it is free speech, but that doesn't make it correct speech. Nor do I think it is correct speech for Liza to use the word "ghetto" to describe how she might get bad or do bad or nasty to a user that is annoying her. Ghettos do not have to be bad, are not all bad. We have to get away from such stereotypes. In my opinion.
PC police much, Wallner?
And today's prize for Politically Correct Moronic Futile Claptrap goes to (pause) Wallner!
Clap, audience, clap!
Oh, please
I am black.
I am latina.
I was born in a ghetto.
I was raised in the US last colony.
I have earned the right to say these things.
You, on the other hand, will have to dream you could.
As a white man, alas, you cannot.
The end.
Anger in the Ghetto
If I said, "I'm going to go all Martha's Vineyard on someone", people would certainly wonder what terrible things had happened in Martha's Vineyard to make me use that expression. But I understood the expression to mean, "I'm angry at you, just like people in the ghetto are angry". Since people in the ghetto often have a lot to be angry about, like segregation and redlining, I understood that Liz meant that she was "very angry". I'm angry about those things, and I don't even live in "the ghetto."
"Only after we change that which seemed essential do we realize how natural the "new normal" really is and how inevitable it always was."
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As my mother would say: Now Kids!
I don't mean to pull the old-age stuff on you. I will just say how I feel about getting upset, on or off the cybersphere. First, about my mother. We four children and our parents were cooped up in two rooms in below zero weather during winter months. We had long since obeyed her about not fighting in the house. But there were always tendencies to let go with words. Her admonition was that "if you can't say anything pleasant, don't say anything." One other thing, in our utter whiteness, there were still ethnic battles. Once the other kids at school were willing to tell what kind of hyphenated Americans they were, and we couldn't answer, so we asked her. She told us we were just Americans, always say that. As I grew older, I wondered how much she had put up with during World War I. Both my parents have German surnames. She told how the Lutheran schools who taught classes in German changed to keep from having trouble with the neighbors. And then at a rare moment of letting her mind go back in time, she mentioned that people had to be very careful about letting their children eat treats, because they might have ground glass in them.
I don't know what makes people so mean. But I like you folks and I know you are trying to make the world a better place. I've seen that cute young man who runs Daily Kos on TV and I admire his knowledge and his business acumen. However, I don't know what part business plays in many blogs. I know for sure where political candidates' motives come from. And blogs are run by organizations, be they NRA or AFSC, we can be pretty sure the motivation.
I quite seriously would like your explanation of what causes a political blog to survive well and to carry out its stated mission.
I sure hope Liza knows...
'Cause I'm still finding my way in the dark when it comes to this blogging thing.
Still shocks me that anyone wants to read what I write let alone that it could be part of a successful business thingie.
Remember, my other job's a scientist. Not much business acumen there. Done okay with investments, but not business.
Good to hear from you!
Hi, David. I think the specter of Selma has got to us all. JJ has a good take on the dueling preachers of last Sunday.
Maybe this isn't really scientific but I've read where it is. Two-thirds of communication is non-verbal, the other third verbal. Meaning voice inflection, facial mien, stance--the whole posturing thing--carries the argument, and politicians know that. Kerry on the Summit drove me crazy when I campaigned for him. In the early stages it was so pronounced that I posted a friendly hint about teaching the camera not to shoot from below.
You and I have known each other for so long that I was not put off when I saw your picture on this site. I always thinking of you as coochy cooing Jacob. But I decided not to put my picture on, because I thought I should act "young" which led me to a picture of me hugging a big Santa. Then I thought, Oh, my God! They'll think I'm a religious nut or something. Or just a nut.
Sometimes the language displayed on blogs, in general, seem out of place with the subject. I still am in the old days with a yahoogroup. If I used foul language there they could kick me off. All of this became relevant with the dustup over Edwards' short involvement with a couple of bloggers. And then came the Coulter/CPAC caper. And it's all on YouTube.
I suppose you are a little like me--don't much care for excesses in political journalism. The WP reporter was taken to task over making too many conclusions before the Libby verdict, for example.
I also thought about places like politicalcortex, which is pretty wonkish at times, but as far as I know there is only one member who goes out of his way to say extreme things, which are probably considered satire. I personally like the fellow from Long Island who is quite analytical. Lately, I follow what Rob Kall is doing on OpEdNews. That started because I could pick up my Knoxville columnist's piece there. (He got the shaft, by the way, and is not with the Sentinel any more. It was over too many articles against Bush.) You can see all Don Williams articles on OpEdNews.
It gets down to a question of how much is back fence chatter and how much is deeper political punditry, I suppose, in the kind of pages we contribute to.
So no answers from me. Just something to ponder.
Yep
I like Political Cortex...but don't go there anymore just because my time is so limited and generally didn't see much traffic there. In general I thought the level of their discours excellent.
I still am learning the ropes of how to blog successfully in a lot of ways, though perhaps that goes for everyone. I think there is no question that whatever problems anyone might have with Daily Kos, Markos has been successful by almost any measure. I don't know how one emulates that...or even if one would want to. Many who form new blogs who come from the dKos community do so in reaction to problems they had with dKos, so their focus is on what they don't like, not on the success. Or at least that is my view of it.
As for my experience, I got some slight notice on dKos. More than I originally thought given the general lack of response to my diaries. I began to notice that the same people would come back to my diaries over and over, suggesting they keep an eye out for what I write. Once I started writing at Daily Gotham, I chose to write about local Brooklyn politics even though I figured in Manhattan-centered NYC no one would care. And I chose to be both a touch inflamatory (call corruption for what it is and arson for what it is even when most people want to cover them over) but also make clear that I respect a wide range of people and ideas. I made an effort to see the positive aspects of most Democratic candidates but to be strong in my advocacy for who I liked best and be even stronger in my condemnation of the crap Republicans are doing now.
So, everything in my approach (narrow focus, strong wording...even profanity at times) made me think no one would be reading my stuff. Well, to my surprise the Brooklyn centered stuff Michael and I wrote became some of the most read stuff in NYC blogging. At first the response to both of us was overwhelmingly attacks, and very nasty ones. At first I thought I had done wrong, but in the end I realized I was merely touching nerves that really did need to be touched. Talking about race irritated wealthy white liberals, but was appreciated by blacks. Calling attention to a large increase in suspicious fires near ares developers wanted was called crazy...but eventually the mainstream media started picking it up. And our local Congressional primary really brought Michael and me to everyone's attention with two of the candidates (plus the nearly unknown Republican) reading our stuff regularly and one of the other campaigns reading it. So by writing what I wanted to write in a pretty aggressive way, I became known. Now I have Brooklyn politicians and judges see me and say, "Hey, you're that blogger guy!"
When Liza asked me to spend more time with Culture Kitchen as managing editor, I had to pull back a little from Daily Gotham. And I find I am back to being unsure what people will read. And I find some people find my style too aggressive. Perhaps what files in NYC is different than what flies nationally, but maybe I am just touching nerves that need to be touched again. Not sure yet. But since writing what I wanted to in the style I wanted to worked for Daily Gotham, I see no reason not to continue it here, even if it may be more aggressive than some like. We'll see how it works for Culture Kitchen!
None of which has much to do with business.
This is so true!
I can certainly identify with what David said above:
At first the response to both of us was overwhelmingly attacks, and very nasty ones. At first I thought I had done wrong, but in the end I realized I was merely touching nerves that really did need to be touched. Talking about race irritated wealthy white liberals, but was appreciated by blacks.
This, I can endorse 100%!
"Only after we change that which seemed essential do we realize how natural the "new normal" really is and how inevitable it always was."
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francislholland@yahoo.com
Dear Liza, David, Michael
Dear Liza, David, Michael and Culture Kitchen Readers:
Thank you for publicly stating your reasons for considering banning me from Culture Kitchen. I believe that all blogs should give their readers and posters the respect of making transparent decisions about the pruning of public discourse, rather than practice the secret abortions of public opinion that have become all too common in the blogosphere.
I believe you have already done your duty to Markos and everyone in the “progressive†and Democratic communities by stating unequivocally that my opinion are my own and that you do not necessarily endorse anything I say simply by virtue of it being posted at Culture Kitchen. Since people often take opposition positions in their advocacy, e.g. theist and atheist, you obviously cannot be said to endorse everything that is posted at Culture Kitchen. The mere fact of allowing someone to post an opinion does not mean that you endorse or agree with it. I think you have made this perfectly clear.
If the progressive blogosphere is NOT the place to criticize and rail against Markos and DailyKos, then what IS the place? Should we go directly to the mainstream media with our criticisms, airing our dirty progressive laundry in public? Should we publish our disagreements among Democrats in the Washington Post, as Markos did when he attacked Hillary Clinton last year? Or should we address issues first among ourselves on the Left, no matter how uncomfortable it may be? When Markos expelled me from DailyKos, he effectively compelled me to take my issues with him to a wider audience.
It seems to me that anything that is published for public viewing anywhere can be reasonably reprinted anywhere else. The value added of the Internet is that it effectively makes “one cloth†out of all of the pieces published on the Internet, through linking of pages as well as through citation and quotes. Once we publish something, we have no control over how it may be used or when or where.
So, once you publish an opinion or information at Culture Kitchen or Daily Gotham, that publication can never be private again and its uses are really beyond all of our control. If you say at Daily Gotham that you oppose racism and I re-publish that opinion at the Francis L. Holland Blog, in a new context, that in now way implies that you have endorsed me or my blog, except to the extent that your actual words say that you have. However, it is inevitable that if you post against racism others will repeat your ideas in many forums. And the fact that I announce that an idea is “Cross-posted at Culture Kitchen†no more implies an endorsement by you than a library endorses a book by including that book among the stacks.
However, when a library removes all of the books of a certain author from the stacks, that DOES have a very important meaning – CENSORSHIP. “Banning†at a blog is the digital equivalent of censorship – or book burning - at a brick and mortar library, because the intention is the same: To prevent the public from accessing and considering all of the views available on a particular subject.
I agree with you that correspondence that is intended to be private should remain private. However, I also strongly hold that any demands that a writer refrain from writing about a certain subject and threats to ban (censor) a writer should be made in public, except in the rare cases where public notice would risk libel or invasion of the privacy of a private individual.
Transparency is crucial to the free flow and exchange of ideas. When you privately order me to desist from criticizing a public figure like Markos Moulitsas, or a public blog like DailyKos, you are engaging in censorship of information that is crucial to the public’s right to know. When you consider censoring such information, the public has a right to know what information and opinions are being intentionally restricted and withheld, and they have a right to know why.
Markos Moulitsas is “chairman†of a political force – DailyKos – that is attempting to change our society in fundamental ways. The public has a need and a right to have more information about Markos and DailyKos to decide whether they have the moral authority, standing and judgment to push the Democratic Party in the directions that they propose. This is an urgent public policy matter that is far more important than any individual’s friendship or association with Markos or others at DailyKos. We are speaking about the direction of a nation and its foreign policy, and even institutional personal loyalties (and animosities) need to be subsumed to the larger good.
Nor does the perceived “rudeness†of a particular author justify censorship of some or all of that author’s opinions. The appropriate response to someone whom you or others perceive to be rude is to ignore that person - not to ban that person’s ideas from public consideration. And yet the latter response – totalitarians – is all-too-common at blogs of the Left and the Right. Some of us may be constitutionally or situationally incapable of presenting our opinions in a deferential way, but that does not mean that society can safely ignore our opinions without negative consequences devolving from that policy. Everyone has a right to speak at the risk of being ignored.
Markos believes he knows who should be President in 2008 and he will undoubtedly endorse a candidate in the primaries, arguing that he represents the “netrootsâ€. I disagree that he represents the netroots based on the exclusionary nature of DailyKos demographics. I also believe that an understanding of Markos history, motives and institutional behavior is relevant to the public’s judgment of the weight that Markos endorsement should be given.
Markos consistently criticizes whomever he chooses to criticize, including Democratic politicians and other progressives. For him to try to use his institutional muscle and personal connections to squelch criticism of himself and his views is unjust and repugnant. It perpetuates the monopoly of information and opinion by an “old boys’ network.†The more Markos endeavors to prevent others from challenging his opinions throughout the blogosphere, the more certain is the revolt against the authoritarian and totalitarian impulses manifested in that attempted control.
Too often “progressive†blog publishers feel a need and moral obligation to consider whether the views of Democratic Party blog participants are worthy of consideration by the public. I submit to you that that is a fundamental misconception about the role of a progressive blog publisher. A blog should leave to public the role of sorting out what is true and what is false, not by censoring views and information, but by forcefully and publicly refuting view and information. If I unfairly criticize Markos, then let his supporters and bystanders say so publicly, so that everyone can be better informed. Both criticism and praise will increase publication of Markos’ ideas, but no one has a right to have their ideas, advocacy and public behavior go unchallenged. Not even Markos Moulitsas.
With his half-Greek and half-Salvadoran heritage, Markos, in my opinion, is what is called a “white Hispanic. Because his skin is white, he is only considered a minority in America if he chooses to be so. Marcos cannot be characterized as a “Latino advocate†or “Hispanic advocate†because he rarely mentions these communities in his blogging. Moreover, the pronounced lack of Latino participation at DailyKos leads me to suspect his roots in these communities and his commitment to these communities. I understand that bilingual blogging is frowned upon at DailyKos – a fact that has been raised and that continues to limit access of progressive views to progressive Latino eyes and ears.
As a result of the American context, I am personally torn about issues involving skin-color and ethnicity. Although I value many white people personally, I hate and struggle daily against the white supremacy paradigm, particularly against the white male monopoly of the presidency of the United States. I and people like me have for too long been demeaned and restricted by whites supremacy prejudices and prejudiced behaviors, and I cannot desist from struggling against such behavior no matter where they originate, whether within minority communities and persons or majorities communities and persons. The fact that Markos has Latino forbears ought no more shields him from criticism than the fact that I have Black skin should shield me from criticism. Clarence Thomas has proven to all of us that it is ideas and behavior that count, not skin color or ethnicity.
I leave you with this question: If I ought not criticize Markos in the progressive blogosphere, where SHOULD I criticize him, or is he above criticism?
If you order me not to criticize Markos at Daily Gotham and Culture Kitchen, please do so formally and publicly. When I continue to criticize Markos, please censor me publicly, to allow the public to see understand the “progressive†principle that Markos Moulitsas, and perhaps all progressives, are above criticism.
Cross-posted at the Francis L. Holland Blog.
francislholland@yahoo.com
"Only after we change that which seemed essential do we realize how natural the "new normal" really is and how inevitable it always was."
My take
Please see my diary on Community Dynamics for my take on some of this as a managing editor. Keep in mind it is MY view and not the view of others unless they say so.
Deception
First off, have I banned you from my sites? No; but I will state it again : Use my name to make it look I am in agreement with any of your attention whoring and I'll kick you personally off my sites. Dig it?
Second, you're a wanker for writing this :
If you order me not to criticize Markos at Daily Gotham and Culture Kitchen, please do so formally and publicly. When I continue to criticize Markos, please censor me publicly, to allow the public to see understand the “progressive†principle that Markos Moulitsas, and perhaps all progressives, are above criticism.
Where the fuck have I told you not to write about Markos or DailyKos? What I've told you and I am going to say it again, is that you not only don't offer anything constructive with your criticism, but you won't promote the thousands of blogs out there which, like culturekitchen, are trying to make a difference.
You've turned getting banned from sites into a sport. It supports you're soap opera theme of being an oppressed negro in cyberspace, "so boohooo look at me, look how racist they are for throwing me out the door", when in truth you were received with great hospitality but you chose to take a dump in the middle of people's living rooms.
People like you are not looking for an alternative. You want to perpetuate the oppressive reality you so hypocritically decry because you are too afraid of what unstoppable change looks like.
Some notes
I really hate to interrupt the persecution fiesta you've arranged for yourself, Francis, but odds are, Kos did not ban you himself; instead, that probably happened via the autoban feature that enables the DK community to remove disruptive posters. It's unclear to me, given that the functions of the site are well known to all its users, how you would develop the idea that you have been singled out for persecution by Kos himself; that ties in well with the 'everybody's picking on me because I'm such a truth-teller' conceit you seek to construct, but it's not warranted by the facts. You were troll-rated, likely because you insisted on calling people white supremacists and racists for not supporting your candidate. It's your particular fetish to imagine that the well-known names of blogdom see you as a peer and a threat, but I'd imagine they don't.
Next, you were publicly kicked off Daily Gotham, for reasons laid out with great clarity here. Daily Gotham chooses not to make itself available to your vendetta, not because we're 'afraid' of your 'ideas', but because we wish to preserve our topicality and a level of discourse higher than 'Shut up, Jew'. Just for the record, we have a large black audience and some expertise on writing about black subjects, which you do not; this because you're not really writing about black subjects, but about Francis Holland, and the two are not the same. However, Daily Gotham is a blog about New York politics, well-regarded as such, and not a blog about Francis Holland. Coincidentally, if you take your shtick to The Albany Project, likely, the same thing is going to happen, and again, not because anyone is 'scared' of your great truths, but because it's off topic.
Lastly, about the 'uncomfortable issues' you claim to address: get over yourself, fool. Your 'uncomfortable issue' is that you consider Markos inconvenient to the coronation of Hillary Clinton. Everything else flows from that, and you'd be mistaken if you thought anyone was fooled by protestations to the contrary. People do recognize egotrips.
For Margaret and Me
Collegial deliberation and action by definition takes place between *colleagues* in sustainable, conducive communities carefully created for same -- not in random encounters, exposed to the elements on public street corners full of traffic noise, powerless rage and the stink of demented detritus.
Here's the kind of progressive collegial exchange of real thinking and analysis for which I love Culture Kitchen, for which I first became (and mean to remain) a contributor. I never blogged anywhere before Liza invited me here and I still don't except at my own place with Nance. I don't even READ much political infighting online -- anywhere but here, sigh -- and so I trust Liza, David, Michael and Lorraine to continue building it on this higher plane where intelligence and collegiality meet, thoughtfully connecting culture cues to create new meanings and possibilities, not on some decaying lowest common denominator, urban street gang drive-by-shooting model.
Margaret and I hit on a forum topic idea last night, about collegial cooperation for the common good rather than personalized oppositional ranting. It reminded me yet again,of how hard it is to see the difference sometimes, how hard we need to work at not getting stampeded out into the streets to be dismissed by regular workaday folk as raving lunatics rather than their fellow citizens and colleagues:
I'm thinking today that, if and when the world ends, trying to stay off the street corner where the lunatics rant on, this conversation would be a more worthy CK forum topic by far, than the recent unwelcome interjection of random street rage based on personal powerlessness and self-loathing.
Liza said: "I have earned
Liza said:
"I have earned the right to say these things"
It doesn't have anything to do with "the right" to say anything. The Constitution gives you the right to say these things, but it does not make it proper or correct. The "N" word and use of "ghetto" as slang for violence ("ghetto your ass") are demeaning stereotypes. Which no one, black or white, ought to be using. Liza, you don't help the progressive causes using words like that, or by implying that you have suffered more and thus earned more rights than anyone else by virtue of your ethnicity or where you grew up.
The stupid is strong with
The stupid is strong with this one.
Going all ghetto on your ass
As a relative newcomer to this forum....trying to get a "feel" for the field here...if I can weigh in on this business of the phrasal verb "to go ghetto" on someone.
Like Liza, I speak from the perspective of someone who is "native" to the Hood, that is, to the "ghetto."
The term "go ghetto on you" is part of our every day vernacular. I hear it used all the time--most often with a healthy dose of wry irony.
Expressed among "equals", my sense is that the term to "go ghetto on you" (or ghetto your ass, go ghetto on your ass, whatever the variant may be), inasmuch as it can even be equated with the N-word (I don't think it can: not sure what the real etymology of "go ghetto on you" is, but my intuitive sense is that it is a term that emerged organically from the Hood, not one that was imposed or imported from the outside), is more of a friendly way of saying: back the fuck off, man, cause you are treading dangerously close to the line in the sand I have drawn here.
All that aside, I really don't think anyone can tell Black folk whether they should or should not use the N-word. Fact is, a lot of them do. And that's their business, not mine. I teach at a community organization where I am the only non-Black, among the faculty/staff and the student body. I hear adults around me use the N-word often enough. It's frowned upon when used by students--with the same kind of disapproval attached, for example, to the F-word.
Not so with the term "go ghetto" on you. At a recent performing event in this organization, one of the adult mentors, in fact, instructed the youth in a play to "give it to me a little more 'ghetto'" (not exactly the same thing as "go all ghetto" on you), but still related.
Personally, I feel that anyone who is not native to the ghetto/Hood doesn't have a goddamned thing to say about the vernacular of the Hood.
And anyone who is not Black certainly doesn't have a damn thing to say about how Black people choose to use and/or abuse the N-word. Shit, in these parts, if I were to get all up in someone's face about his/her use of the N-word (unless that someone was a kid), I'd fully expect that person to go full-throttle ghetto on my ass. And rightly so.
My Hobbithole in the Hood atHistoricalFootnotes 
I think I understood Liza's intent.
While it might be regrettable to use the phrase "get ghetto", just as "go Postal" might be offensive, yet nonetheless I understood Liza's preface to mean that BEFORE she told me what she thought of my behavior, she wanted to make sure I understood that she didn't come from a life of unbounded privilege and isolation. It is generally easier to hear criticism and suggestions from someone who presumeably understands one's experience to some degree. That came through.
Anyway, I've been trying hard not to "go all Larchmont" on your folks! It's a joke! No offense to Larchmont intended!
"Only after we change that which seemed essential do we realize how natural the "new normal" really is and how inevitable it always was."
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My personal synonym of choice is
to "go all Samuel L. Jackson on you," most often accompanied by a hyperlinked quote containing one or the other of these expressions, like that is "some fucked up repugnant shit," "I don't remember asking you a goddamned thing" or, my personal favorite, "English, motherfucker, do you speak it?"
;-)
My Hobbithole in the Hood atHistoricalFootnotes 
Well. We're getting somewhere, methinks.
I increased my vocabulary a little. And have some rare ones of my own, but you all don't need them. I'm a serious type, but I'm not a goody goody two shoes. It's good to introduce ourselves. I've written about my mother's rules before. She didn't like heated names for a person's ethnicity. She's the only one I've ever known who wouldn't listen to Archie Bunker because he wasn't respectful. I thought it was wonderful that finally we were adult enough to broadcast them.
It's better to talk about what's rattling our cages than to look for sugar coated gibes.
I asked about what the blobs, political ones, have as a function. At the least I believe that everyone's choice should be given attention. I confess I'm a political wonk so I tend to throw in some unneeded embellishments at the time.
Let me introduce my idea of politics. Elections are just about the least a citizen has to do to fulfill his/her obligation to a nation. We live in a republic and we elect someone to represent us. So, vigilance is important. Because I have seen twists and turns in prevailing issues over the years, I may be tedious with "I remember when." When I wrote about navigating the street car system in Atlanta in 1948, I see it through 60 years of changes, many of which are still superficial in my view. In the final act, it's the humanness we recognize in others which gives us some sense of being human.
And then JJ piped in. How are we doing? Beats me! We wonder why cooperation is harder to cultivate in people than competition. Or some such thing. I hope that's what you meant, JJ.
Pretty Much
Yes, did you see the movie Field of Dreams? Some days I feel like "If you build it, they will come -- tear it down, as fast as they can . . "
Bad day, huh?
Sometimes I think we observe political candidates too much. Who's to have faith in the "handlers" or whatever the proper name is for the folks who run campaigns? For example, the latest word is that McCain's help quit. They were mad because they had a summer date set up for his announcement. And he decided to come out sooner.
I've heard the expression about herding cats at least twice today. But on to what we were trying to accomplish re cooperation.
Mole just posted a well-structured explanation of how Culture Kitchen works. On this very thread there was a lot of dissonance according to me. By having the leaders define for us how to proceed, things will be more fruitful.
In a sense this discussion is similar to governing in general. We decide on someone to represent us to make laws and oversee there execution. The representative is beholden to the majority who voted for him but he is also required to look after the minority. The president has a role to carry out the laws he signs and to act as a cheerleader for the citizens. By definition, he is more partisan, but still cannot overlook the welfare of all citizens. Thus the majority of Americans are fed up with Bush, not because he runs a poor war but because he acted arrogantly toward us. It's incomprehensible to me that a president could say that he is the commander-in-chief of the Congress. I heard it with my own ears and didn't believe it, so I waited for a rerun before giving him a lesson in Government 101. At least he let's us write e-mails to him. I know some wouldn't do that--too disrespectful, too likely to be punished for it, or just too disillusioned to think it makes any difference. Voting is such a small part of being a good citizen.
In our idea of a project to look for re cooperation, there are so many ways we could be involved. I like to write letters to newspaper columnists long before election time. If I pick out a few who seem to have studied political campaigns I can revisit them to help reinforce the good points of my choice.
Come to think of it, the only person in the country who doesn't have to be investigated for a job is the POTUS. It's okay for voters to check out how many jobs he's had and how he performed them, if they can find verifiable data. And it's okay to try to size up his social values. But the one thing which does not make sense is to worry about gender or skin color. Yet we, the more informed voters, often get stuck in just such mazes. Women can be presidents in other countries so I assume American women are as likely to be candidates. However, to expect women to vote for her just because she is a woman is actually to deny her real worth. Same with any hyphenated-American. So, I ask, is anyone really helping the cause of his/her choice by bringing up those unchangeable circumstances? Instead of outright debates over one's choice would it not be better to engage in a discussion?
Come to think of it, this is recognized in formal declamation. In debate rules there is supposed to be a brass ring. But in formal group discussion there is room for consensus. Usually two to a side and with set rules of how and when to speak. This blog, less formal, has some of the same characteristics.
If you're interested, do you suppose four woman could set out to discover why & why not Hillary should be the next president. I opted for her because it seems such a vigorous subject especially by men.
Good Point
that I've been feeling at the subconscious lizard brain level -- men ganging up to guilt women into voting for a certain woman *because* she's a woman, doesn't feel like any feminism I can understand.
We're not thro ugh y et
In those long ago days of conscience raising done in brownbag lunches with NOW sisters, I think we got pretty well past some of the stereotypes about ourselves. The bitchiness syndrome, for example. Once we acknowledged that women are often their own worst enemies, we lightened up. We accepted each other as human beings and we even could see the ironic side of some common problems we faced. So names like Queen Bee and Dumb Broad were not slurs but categories which had held women back at work and home.
For my part, I did not like stopping so soon. In a sense I left the talk when men had become challenges more than obstacles. But that was not a giant leap into understanding. Of course the corporate world was into understanding the old battle of the sexes was dead, with or without federal legislation. We were liberally given doses of sensitivity training, usually from men. Nowadays they seem to call it diversity training and I've encountered women in the field. The objective is to have employees respect each other. Although a first step, it is not a way of developing true understanding of basic human values. The buck stops at the bottom line, and people cannot be defined by their worldly goods.
To get back to a discussion JJ and I had, cooperation is harder to achieve than competition in daily living. In human relations babies are not good examples. We have to teach them that grabbing someone's bunny can get you clobbered, and besides "it's not nice." Acceptable manners are a monkey see, monkey do proposition. But when it comes time to think about the big enchilada, most of us erupt. Who is anyone to tell me what I think about Roe vs Wade, especially any man? You want illegal immigrants to come in and take my job, whether I'd like to shove it or not? Do you think I'm going to let any skirt (notice the subdued language) tell me how to spend my money, because all women want you for is a meal ticket? Just examples of words I've heard.
Where is the joy! Where is the give and take of everyday living! Why can't we get along? They have such a thing as conflict resolution. Anyone want to talk about it?


































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