The big business of a culture of stupid girls
They dance and strip for free while some jerk-off makes a fortune selling videos of them. Looking dumbfounded when she learned that the girls don't get paid for their exposure, Oprah remarked, "Okay, that really is stupid." No kidding.
But, wait! It gets worse. It is not just that women are exploiting their bodies "for free", they are forking out tons of money to look like all the women they see on television. Oprah had four teenagers from Florida on the show. These young girls spend thousands of dollars to imitate celebrity styles and one is already planning on getting breast implants. Are these young women just a rare exception? Come on. Who hasn't spent a ridiculous amount of money on highlights, or bikini waxes, or some other please-make-me-be-sexy type thing?
We are literally buying into our oppression. People are profiting off the exploitation of girls and women, and then taking our money as we each try to add up to the narrow formula of sexy that bombards us.
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You Got a Point, Sigh
. . .when the all-time Number One viewed post even here, is that provocative picture of the Uncanny Valley of the Pussycat Dolls . . .
OTOH, isn't it a whole different thing when we help our daughters think of creatively shaping personal appearance as part of the larger expressive art of creating a self, rather than mere sex-peddling ploy? -- then isn't it more like (hopefully!) their writing, photography, politics, friendship, study, sex and reproductive creativity?
Of course in a stupid girl, all her creations will reflect that stupidity no matter how she looks.
I can't help but remember reading about Dolly Parton so thoroughly creating a "self" she could make millions with, but also music and warmth and even an example to look up to (past?) despite all that exaggerated feminissimo stuff on the outside.
It makes me feel actually fond of her somehow -- is that stupid of ME, maybe? More sighing . . .

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But, you know,
when you continue reading here at the wonderful culturekitchen, and you click onto a different page, the little advertising box at the left-hand top of the page has this enticement to do something-or-other to make your blog look better. Why? Because "being attractive makes money."
I'm just saying. . .
Nance -- trying to raise my daughter to enjoy being pretty but to have self-respect and not waste her time and money on trendy or inappropriate junk, but the mixed messages are everywhere.